by Kelsie McQueen-Davies
My leadership journey seemed to begin when we had a lecture within my first module as a student midwife, in this session we were encouraged to look at the different types of leadership methods. I learnt that leaders are not necessarily managers, and anyone could be a leader. Following the session, we were encouraged that if we wanted to further our knowledge on leadership and begin a journey in finding our leadership methods then to apply for the Swansea university leadership program. At first, I was unsure if applying for the course was the correct thing to do, my personal tutor asked if I had thought about applying for the program and said it would be a fantastic opportunity for myself. Following this I plucked up the courage to apply, when I had the email confirming my space on the program, I was shocked and excited to see where this journey would take me.

During the first two conference days I had the opportunity to meet some wonderful fellow students from other subjects and work with them on different tasks. We were introduced to different leadership types and how some work at enhancing people’s abilities where others do the opposite. During this type I had the opportunity to explore emotional intelligence leadership as this was a key part of the conference day, the key aspects of this leadership type intrigued me further. I found myself imagining that if I was to progress into leadership that this was the type of leader I would like to be supportive, encouraging, motivational and empathetic.
Following this opportunity, it made me reflect on my previous carrier before studying midwifery, during my 7 years at Costa coffee it showed me an insight on the different types of leadership although I never realised this at the time. I witnessed first hand how with support people could achieve greatly but when this wasn’t available then things would become hard. I managed to progress to a supervisor role and although I had a lack of support by management, I knew that was not the way I wanted to work. Now looking back, I can see how I was a mixture between transformational and supportive leadership types, I describe myself as these types at the time I was exhibiting traits of both however I feel I could relate more wit0h the supportive leadership role.


In one of our activities on the second day we discussed within a small group of ways to improve experiences that students have within our area of study. From this I thought of a way of improving the midwifery buddy system, this system was designed as a one-to-one support network between a second year and first year student to support them within their first year of studying the midwifery course.
I could see areas to improve as there was a lack of communication between the second year in first year and in some instances, there was no initial contact at all. I considered whether having all the year groups included within a buddy group would be an improvement in the buddy system as it would allow multiple people to communicate together and share support rather than a one-to-one where there was no pressure an individual to support someone as this can be uncomfortable to begin with if there was no prior experience. I began discussing this with my personal tutor and we planned on creating the new buddy system as a support network for small groups with a mixture over the three cohorts. As part of the NMC code 9.4 midwives and nurses should support others with their learning and development, therefore practicing this technique as a student can support us further once qualified with our confidence to support future students (Nursing & Midwifery Council (NMC), 2018).

As part of the leadership programme, I was given a mentor where we had a few meetings together to see how I was getting on with my leadership journey, where it was heading and to answer any questions or offer any support. I found this very beneficial especially when discussing leadership skills, I was being exposed to through practise and explaining how there were aspects of some individuals that I would like to incorporate into my leadership skills however there was other aspects of other individuals that maybe I wouldn’t incorporate. Having the ability to speak openly with someone regarding this and having feedback on the different types of leadership skills and values assisted me further in developing the new buddy system. I found my mentor very approachable and the knowledge she was passing down to me very beneficial as although we didn’t work within the same area, we had common values and just discussing leadership journeys allowed me to further understand the importance of a leadership role and understanding the different types.

From having this opportunity to delve deeper into leadership my knowledge has grown especially around emotional intelligence leadership, I believe the ship is gold standard and should be the goal that everyone strives to achieve. It is empowering for not just the leaders but also their employees and is a stepping stone to inspire others to experience leadership. Elements of emotional intelligence is the leader’s ability to acknowledge and manage their own emotions whilst also empathising with others, this will assist with building trust, loyalty and respect, whilst also showing adaptability team through challenges or change, and having communication skills that allows you to listen explain and have an open dialogue with others. These elements demonstrate gold standard leadership.

I’ve learned that anyone can manage but only some can lead, and this is because there is a great difference between management and leadership. Management tends to focus on organising and controlling so that the workflow is running smoothly, whereas leadership tends to focus on inspiring, encouraging and empowering so that employees feel a part of a team. However, it is understandable that leaders need to manage their tasks but there is also a need to inspire and elevate their teams as this will create a better working environment. This can be hard to achieve but with tools and support this is the best way forward. I feel from the further reading I have done on this topic; I am aware of what I need to work on and achieve to be a better leader for myself and my future work colleagues.
Looking forward to the future I believe that the experiences I have gained from this course has shaped me and will continue to shape me as a leader. I will continue to look at ways to improve my leadership skills and to support, encourage and empower others to look at their own leadership skills. The new student midwifery buddy system is a project that I will be focussing on and will hopefully make a change in the way students feel supported by their fellow student. Because this journey shapes us for our future and the future can be tough at times but with support and guidance, we can all achieve our goals.
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