by Daniel Marks
Going into the course having previously attended leadership style educational events in the past I expected it to be more around the theory and how to put it into practice within our chosen areas. Upon taking part in the day sessions and moving forward into the discussions that took place between myself and my mentor I realised that it wasn’t really that and more about peoples lived experiences and how they were able to adapt their practices and lives in developing themselves as leaders. I had confidence in myself but did find it difficult to put ideas forward that I had due to feeling that those ideas weren’t good enough or that they simply wouldn’t be willing to have those conversations required in order for development to take place not just in practice but my own personal development journey.
Through discussion with my colleagues, lecturers and my mentor, I was fortunate to learn that my ideas had a place within the field I was looking to implement them within. The elevator pitch session stuck out to me, I was now aware that my ideas were valid and now I had to take them to the people that were going to be able to aid me in facilitating their implementation into practice. However whilst I was confident in being able to discuss them within my comfort zone, my learning group and lecturers for example. Taking them forward to the people that could actually allow me to make a difference was a different matter entirely.
Using the elevator pitch as a basis I began by reaching out to those people that could affect the change, upon receipt of their agreement to discuss with me I determined that the little time they were allowing me would have to be maximised. The academy had given me the skills, being able to put across the critical information around my change, whilst putting it in clear language with provision of some evidence of what I would like to implement would aid in facilitating the changes that I wished to bring about. Discussions with my mentor taught me that I was very passionate about my area of study and that things I had learnt in the past would allow me to discuss my passion in a confident manner and gave me the feeling that I actually knew what I was talking about.
As time went on heading into those conversations, where previously I would have had some nerves about talking to those in more senior positions about ideas and my thoughts on an area I was relatively new in. Now I found myself much more confident in my own abilities, the positive reinforcement from those around me aided my confidence that my ideas were worthy of being heard and I went into those conversations with elevated belief that although they were in more senior positions they were still willing to listen to what I had to say.
Having undertaken the academy I learnt that being able to step out of my comfort zone isn’t going to be comfortable but challenging, however that challenging aspect is what allows you to learn the most about yourself, do you have the ability to do the difficult things, have the difficult conversations, be able to stand up in front of a group of people and put across the topics that you may have confidence in your knowledge of but to be able to put those ideas to others in a way that facilitates their own learning and development. On the course I had the opportunity to stand up and present ideas of my own to the group, whilst the concept of what I was talking about was new to me, having had those conversation within the groups allowed me to develop my own understanding of the topic it did not automatically allow me to discuss in front of a group of people so being able to adopt the ‘fake it till you make it’ approach gave me the chance to appear more confident in front of others than I otherwise would have been.
In short take the chances you’re presented with, take part in the difficult conversations, reach out to those that can influence and adopt the ideas and changes that you come up with. One thing I learnt is that everyone is the same as us, each one of us has a group of people that we would feel uncomfortable standing up in front of and discussing topics were involved in. Take the time to speak to parties that you find more confidence putting your thoughts and opinions over to, allow them to come back at you, question you on your thoughts and knowledge on the area, this will allow you to gain that necessary feeling that you know what you’re talking about and when you have conversations with more senior parties you will feel far more relaxed than you did in the past.
Swansea University Student Leadership Academy 